Whenever my girlfriends go on dates I often end up workshopping outfits with them as they’re never quite sure what to wear. Too dressy? Too casual? Too much? There are myriad style concerns that can crop up. First dates can be nerve wracking enough as it is without throwing a wardrobe crisis into the mix so here are the tips I give my friends…
Dress for the venue
On a first date you’ll often know ahead of time where you’re going and what you’re doing so let that be your guide. Yes, it’s understandable that you want to look amazing so you may want to go all out but it’s also important to ensure that you’re not overdressed or underdressed. For example if you’re going to play mini golf you may want to avoid pulling out a bodycon dress and heels and opt for jeans and a nice top instead. By the same token you don’t want to rock up in sneakers if you’re heading to the best restaurant in town.
Comfort is key
I’ve always believed that if you’re comfortable in what you’re wearing you’ll naturally be more confident. If you’re spending half the evening worrying about some aspect of your look or adjusting yourself every five seconds you’ll end up frazzled and not feeling your best. Always choose an outfit that makes you feel great but also allows you to relax. Relaxed date = great date!
Rely on tried and tested looks
A first date is probably not the best time to go too crazy on the fashion and beauty front. Remember being comfortable is key so go with looks that you know have worked in the past and make you feel great. If you’ve never really done a bright lip before it might not be the best time to try it if you end up worrying about whether you have lipstick on your teeth the entire date. Save experimentation for a night out with your girlfriends; this is the time to rely on what you know works. If you really want to try a new look do a dry run a few days prior so you can iron out any kinks beforehand.
What are your tips for a first date look?